Scott, sorry to hear about your missfortune, hopefully everything will turn out for the best. As for cars, I can whole heartedly reccomend the 2003-07 Accords, the make very nice long distance commuters, and it is looking like you will be putting a lot of miles on. The manuals are a little more fun, and quite nice, but the automatic is smooth, and I have never had issues with it. Build quality is typical honda, nice ergonomics for the interior, and those little touches, like a recessed LED that illuminates the shifter area at night. Only complaints are the stock tires which are cushy, but don't grip too well, and a rather thick A pillar. Unless you really want the power, I would suggest the I4 instead of the V6. The 4 is sufficient for everything except stoplight drag races, it really never feels underpowered, and the maintenance is both easier and cheaper (and of course better mileage). Do get the leather, it is worth it. (I would reccomend heated seats if you lived in the northern reaches, but I'm guessing you would have less use for that one.)
Regardless, heal quickly, and best of luck finding a new car, also you should be able to negotiate the price of the settlement somewhat, and if not, you can always call in a favor with your lawyer friends.