The problem is that everyone's definition of good or bad is not the same. In many cases, religion dogma is usually intolerance of non-believers. This is abused by the leaders to achieve often other goals.
Actually I believe what has happened, and continue to happen, is there are no more "right and wrong absolutes". As I wrote previously Truth is no longer Absolute but rather in today's pluralistic world view everyone can have a slice of Truth. This though cannot be.
Murder is wrong. It matters not where one goes, to even the farthest reaches of the universe, murder is absolutely wrong. Many today though hold to a worldview where murder is wrong, as long as you hold the same worldview.
These types hold to a relativistic worldview. What's true for you may not be what's true for me. This though is contradictory and therefore cannot stand on it's own principle. If relativism is what everyone should believe and hold to then it becomes "Absolutely true" for everyone, thus no longer a relativistic world view. In addition, if one claims that what's true for them may not be true for me then I could argue that they are wrong and I am right and by their own worldview they must agree with me. If they disagree with that then they have violated their own world view principles.
So yes you are correct in that many people will see good and bad with a relative slant. There is no such thing as an all inclusive "Truth". Truth by its very nature is "exclusive". Nothing is really all inclusive, for example, Buddhist and Hindu followers may claim they are truly all inclusive yet this is only so if you believe and hold to the same tenets as they. How can one be an atheist and also claim to follow Hinduism which claims to have over a million gods? Nor can one be an atheist and claim to believe in God.
So everyone is "intolerant" of others in some form or fashion, not just religion based but fashion based, class based, politically based and so on. I can disagree with someone and/or not agree with their lifestyle yet I tolerate that or them without having to be accepting of it.
I do not agree with special prayer time for Muslims within a state managed facility for do we not have that little thing called "separation of church and state"?? How is it they can have the funds allocated to build them a special little area for their prayers and foot baths yet a Christian cannot have an area constructed depicting a nativity scene? So I tolerate Muslims but draw the line at accepting their demands for their beliefs.
"Everyone is entitled to their own views (as long as they agree with mine)!" That's the belief of the so called "tolerant liberals". Let's see, there are over 50 bakeries in one city but a xxx couple picks the one Christian run bakery to go in and ask for a wedding cake for their xxx wedding. They cry out "Discrimination" when refused and sue them. The whole time their argument is, "We just want to be accepted as normal people with normal rights!" Not grasping that they ARE being treated as NORMAL people. Normal people get said NO to a lot for various reasons. You cannot be xxx and want both equal treatment then also special treatment.
So what then is truly "all inclusive"? Death.
Ha, I can't type "G-a-y" ?? It bleeps it...funny