Flashtime- Thanks for all the informative links, those did clear up a lot of the *misconceptions* I had, I do appreciate it (and thanks especially for not blowing me off as an argumentative jerk). I had a lot to learn and you provided just the right info.
Note that in the second link, they say it's not OK to blend, but then in their pic they show a blend part way up that sailpanel :think:
Regarding the link to RL Hudson, I would've thought the old-school lacquers were more like a thermoplastic than a thermoset as I don't think of them curing in quite the same way as other paints
I do find it interesting that I've been so fortunate and I can think of a few areas in particular that I'll now be watching like a hawk! Specific example: around the fuel filler door on the MPV's left quarter I had a ~4" x 6" area spotted in (kudos to Mike at Stoddard, it's 100% unnoticeable). Reclearing the whole quarter (properly) wouldn've been a huge production, so the little blending job seemed like the only sensible way to handle it.
Just to see what he says, I'm gonna bring this stuff up when I take my M3 in for some pre-sale paintwork. I don't want anything to come back and bite the next owner. What might be OK for me could be awful for somebody else, huh?
The only blend that's ever failed for me *was* with ss (metallic) lacquer, a ?factory/point-of-import? spot-in on the Jag that drove me nuts for over 20 years before I found somebody good enough to redo it to my satisfaction (and yeah, I realize the repair will become more obvious over time

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Thanks again for schooling me, I'm gonna start adding in some serious caveats whenever I post about blending repairs. YMMV indeed!