Todd@RUPES
Just a regular guy
I have been detailing a good number of years. I have always sought to be the best, to reach a high level in my chosen craft. I wanted my name out there, to have respect from my clients and also those within my craft.
And for what, to have a bunch of people who do this once a month tell you what you are doing wrong. The praise is nice, but as you reach the top, people want to tear you down.
I struggled over every little detail of my details. I sought to create perfection. Spending hours polishing panels, sometimes days. I would Q-tip every nook and cranny inside and out. I did this to such a degree that I could never trust anyone else to do the same job. This may sound cocky but it's not my meaning or intention, it's just that it's very difficult to trust someone to do the same level of detailing that I do and perform it with the same passion.
Doesn't sound cocky to me. I am in the same boat. Stress over everything, it is almost like an addiction. Ryan, Brian (vasupershine), and myself know what it is like to polish a panel for days, but most people (even on this forum) will never understand the difference. I mean a PC and some polish will fill everything in nicely, and that is the advantage of doing this on the side, they don't have frequent follow ups and will never know....
No one really wants to work anymore these days. They want a paycheck but I find little passion for a craft out there among Americas young work force. If I hire someone they see it only as a job, they have nothing personal invested in the job. They did not work their tails off getting the clients, it's not their literal blood, sweat and tears which built up mine/your business.
Amen brother Anthony.
Sure I could hire some people but then I would have to deal with all kinds of added headaches like people calling in sick when a huge day has been planned. Theft of clients stuff, them stealing from me and the worst, damage to a vehicle.
That is what makes high end detailing so difficult and why it is so easy to burn out. You are soley responsible, there is no paycheck guarenteed and you cannot count on anybody. For a while a thought I was so clever and good, doing high end cars (and making good money) but the truth is that the smart guys are the ones who own production shops or car washes. It's not because I am magically better then the next guy, its because the next guy is smarter then I am.
So one day, not so long ago, it came to me that I have no passion for this anymore. I've done it all, there is no challenge any longer. I see all these young guys come on these forums and talk about how they spend hours doing this and that, they spend oodles of money on all these products and feel satisfied making $150.00 for 12 hours of work. They post pictures up and sit back and wait for others to view and praise their work.
It is almost like dating a girl. Passion and fun, but once the passion fades (it will to a degree) what is left. For me it has changed from passion to OCD, which is better for my clients. Too many times I have spent way too much time doing write-ups and ignoring important things, so some people can judge my work. And the more work you post (that is higher quality and done correctly) the more people look for a reason to hate.
How do I know this? Because I once posted for that reason. I then realized that I was counting more on the accolades of others and their opinions were even more important than making money, hence my family suffered because I spent far too many working hours on a car and not being properly compensated for that work, I charged $300 for a detail and I spent 16 hours doing it. I lost money, I didn't make any money. This caused a fatal burn out for me and I'm not sure I'll ever detail like that again. I no longer detail for the passion but now I detail for the profit.
Again I understand what you are saying completely.I am extremely lucky to have a client base that pays for my time so I haven't "lost" money but again, I cannot help but think that there is a better way then this.
So all you who seek the accolades of others and that's the sole purpose of your work then be prepared for a rude awakening because those accolades can't be taken to the bank. They don't pay bills.
And if they do pay the bills, they still don't mean much. The respect of your clients is most important. And even more important is the respect of your family and the time you spend with them (vs on the internet reading my threads, waiting for responses like I do

This is the purpose of my use of this coating. I no longer want to work 8 hours for a few hundred bucks when I can work half that time and make the same or perhaps more. Will it work out that way? I have no idea but I'll never know if I don't try. I detail now for me and my family, not anyone else.
Anthony"
Best of luck!!!
Preach on brother Anthony. Seriously, I can understand and feel your post to such a degree and glad you posted that. Very nice post (that a lot of people might not understand).