camino70- Welcome to Autopia!
I generally subscribe to a "don't touch it between washes!" approach, but on a few of my vehicles I do clean the wheels/tires between washes. There are a few methods that work OK for me:
- ONR (Optimum No Rinse) washes. Other than my usual concerns about ONR (wash-induced marring of delicate surfaces), my big gripe about it is that for some reason the wheels and tires seem to retain more dirt than usual following this procedure even when I follow up with a spritz of FK425

No, I don't know what and yeah, I know that "shouldn't" happen. Also, ONR isn't the greatest tire cleaner.
- Conventional wash with deionized water. I do my best to keep the DI water and soap/dirt/etc. off the rest of the vehicle, and it's not that tough if I use the right hose nozzle; the rubber "flex to flow" nozzles work pretty well for this. Downsides include the chance of getting soapy/dirty water on places where I don't want it.
- Conventional wash with regular water. Pretty much the same as with the DI water except that I have to be *MUCH* more careful to avoid messing up the rest of the vehicle.
Note that none of these approaches really work as well as dong a "proper" wheel wash (my version of proper is kinda extreme and takes a while to do), but when the rest of the vehicle looks great but the wheels are filthy...at least on SUVs the wheelwells usually provide enough space to make it easy enough to keep from making a mess.
I have mixed views about low dust pads. The best-performing brake pads I've used generate dust, the lowest-dusting pads didn't perform as well.
I haven't tried my dust repellant yet, somehow never get around to it

One concern I have is how to keep it off the tires and how to avoid overspray in general; aerosols usually aren't my dispensing mode of choice in general, for those reasons.