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FJF said:Given the cultural perspective, his behavior can be called common. I'd be willing to bet that quite a few of his clients identify with it.
FWIW, I'm self-employed in a technical field with a list of clients that can make most (in my line of work) somewhat envious. Guess what? I use profanity rather liberally, as do my clients. We're adults. These are folks with grad and post-grad degrees. My business certainly doesn't suffer, as I'm able to turn away clients. IME, being genuine carries a lot more weight than pandering.
beachcities said:Yeah, but look at how much repsonse he got fromt [people on this site. Negative or positive, thats marketing baby.
Scottwax said:I have customers from up in that area, and while they may be somewhat abrasive, they don't constantly drop F-bombs.
I am definitely no angel when it comes to language and humor (anyone from offtopic knows that!) but I don't go around saying F-this, F-that, especially in front of customers. It just isn't professional, IMO.
I know more than a few detailing product manufacturers and have never heard any of them talk like that around me or other customers.
David of Optimum, for example. He has taken me out to lunch when I go through Memphis on the way to see my kids in Kentucky and I've never seen him cuss out anyone at the restaurants. He is a very gracious and geniunely nice guy. I'd much rather do business with him than a guy who gets drunk in the middle of the day and swears at employees of a restaurant. I highly doubt I am in the minority on this one.
FJF said:Really, if you guys are bothered by this, I'd hate to think what would happen if something truly (errr...) riveting came your way.![]()
Holden_C04 said:So far, I have not met anyone from that area I liked. Buffalo people are OK, (some are great and very, very warm) but New Yorkers are mostly intolerable.
SuperBee364 said:The fact that I don't like obnoxious, attention starved people that make fools of themselves and only care about themselves means I can't handle something "riveting" that comes my way?
There's no justification for his type of behavior, period. I used to own a restaurant. If he ever came into my business acting like that, I'd physically remove him from the premises, and call in a "drunk and disorderly" against him.
Holden_C04 said:So far, I have not met anyone from that area I liked. Buffalo people are OK, (some are great and very, very warm) but New Yorkers are mostly intolerable.
gators241987 said:Being from NY doesnt mean that you have to live up to the stereotype.
FJF said:C'mon. You can't actually believe that to be a relevant sample. He's a cultural stereotype, if you will, and there are quite a few of those guys. They're not the majority, but they are a bound group.
FJF said:Excuse me? Thinking that everyone in NY is a member of a relatively small cultural subset is no different than us calling all Southerners uneducated, bigoted gomers. Let's leave regional absurdities where they belong - in the garbage - and concentrate on understanding that folks fall into specific groups, and his group doesn't see his behavior as something unusual.
You don't have to like it, but you do need to understand that there are many different types of people in the world. They're most likely different than you and that has no bearing on the nucleus of their respective personas. This said, calling yourself a gentleman and asserting a prejudicial stance doesn't exactly paint a pretty picture.