For wash, I love Meguiars Gold class using the two bucket method. One to get clean wash out of and another to squeeze out your mit in.
For claying, I would pick up a kit from your local autozone by claymagic or meguiars.
As for wax, and it being a truck, you might want to look at some durability, and an easily renewable shine.
I recommend you do the Duragloss process.
1) Duragloss 601 bonding agent [let stand 30 mins until whole car is hazed, then buff off.]
2) 2-3 coats of Duragloss 105 [make sure they go on a few hours apart]
3) After the last layer dries, top it with Duragloss Aquawax.
optional: If you are looking for a scratch remover that can be worked by hand, look at Meguiars ScratchX.
Everytime you wash it, just put a fresh coat of AW on. Im loving this process on my camry. Great wet look, beading, and really makes my flake pop in the sun.
-Ryan
look at duragloss.com for all your DG needs, or your local NAPA might have all of these.
-Ryan
Make sure you get a few applicator pads. The 4 pack terry ones work good from autozone. Look for some good microfiber towels as well. I like these green ones I can get at my local Target that do a great job drying the car and buffing things off.