"detailing" is different from "cleaning"...
The most obvious aspect about detailing is paying attention to the "details"! cleaning the air vents with a cotton swab, going over the engine bay, etc... all of the details. Lots of people CLEAN their cars, and good for them, but i have the feeling that there are some people out there who say they are going to detail their car over the weekend and then wash and wax it. THIS is not detailing in my opinion. I wonder if I am one of these people myself. I clean my car every weekend (weather permitting) and i always wash,polish,wax it. Do the interior, trim and tires. But some people would probably put this in another category other than detailing...
I think if you take care of your car and are happy with the condition of it and the way it looks, thats all that matters. "detailing" is just a word". Having a beautifull car is another thing.