Confessions of an Old Forum Member by Captain Obvious

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Not knowing where to place or even how to begin this thread topic is difficult enough.
First, it had been awhile since I have posted anything. Not because I have nothing to say, (What?! Captain Obvious being quiet and not saying something), it has become painfully obvious (no pun intended) that this forum and the topics posted are a shell of the past. We have discussed this ad nauseam (meaning exactly what it says, 'till we puked!) and I will not beat on or resurrect past discussion topics on this as to what and why.

My ever advancing age and ensuing slight, but steady, decline in physical abilities have precluded me from pursuing and enjoying vehicle detailing to the degree I have in the past. I am sure many of you can relate and the fact that this forum has seen the pasting on (AKA, death) of many of its longtime contributing members whom I deemed detailing All-Starts who have been instrumental in my detailing hobby is indeed sobering and sorrowful at the same time.
I say this because most of you members and occasional lurkers who will be reading this KNOW how passionate I have been and still am passionate about keeping this forum alive and viable as a source of detailing information and help.
No, I am not going anywhere. I still plan on being here, checking "New Post" and asking my ever ubiquitous Captain Obvious questions. But that's the problem; they are becoming fewer and far between and my experience and expertise is, well, old and dated, to the point I dare say, no longer relevant or new. In my younger day, I hated rehashing old detailing information and methodologies by those "seasoned detailing veterans" who's experience was just that; old! And now I find myself at that EXACT SAME point in my life.
So forgive me if I say," I remember when" in starting out a post response or look back at detailing products that are not relevant or new.
In my defense I will say this, however: Sometimes old school can still get it done (just not as fast)!
 
I was just having this discussion with someone over at AGO. How 20-25 years ago there were a lot of college kids on these forums...and there still are (the ones that are left)...except they are in their 40's now. There's a reason these forums (seemingly any forums) are full of old-timers...it's because young people don't go on forums.

I got a lot of crap here or at AGO or both from a certain member, for noting that although everything has changed since I joined here...nothing has changed. Although all the products have changed, and many of them are better than we could have dreamed of 20 years ago, we still have brand loyalty, brand curiosity, "flavor-of-the-month"; we argue and iterate everything to death, we have our detailing heroes and demons.

So I wouldn't worry about your knowledge being "out of date", to dredge up an old Autopia mantra: process > product
 
Someone once told me about my asking seemingly dumb questions because of my ignorance on mechanical design application or how to make good engineering drawings, "The only "dumb" question is the the one you do not ask. If you're too proud to ask, how will you ever learn?" Lesson learned and it's the reason for my Captain Obvious questions.
I did have one supervisor in engineering ask me what I thought and why; in other words solve the problem yourself. The school of hard knocks is a great teacher; it's just that the tuition is expensive. Yes, I had my share of mistakes, both in engineering and detailing.
So please keep answering my questions.
 
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In my 40’s now, started getting into detailing during the pandemic downtime. This place has been an invaluable resource for learning and growing and appreciating the art form.

It’s definitely my first place to turn to for honest feedback and reviews on new products. YouTube and Reddit tend to be filled with “influencers”.
 
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"The only "dumb" question is the the one you do not ask. If you're too proud to ask, how will you ever learn?"
An old boss of mine introduced me to that thought when I was a young man, with slightly different phrasing (his was "The only stupid question is the one that doesn't get asked"). I'm not a "people-person", so I have spent my life trying to figure out people.

I have had the misfortune of working with a couple of people who never asked questions, and who appeared to be "dumb". I could never figure out if there was a chicken-and-egg thing going on, whether they didn't ask questions because they were dumb, or if they were dumb because they never asked questions, or if it was something else.
 
When I first started out, folks that knew how to correctly polish paint were very few and far between.
Technologies and products have changed a LOT since the rotary/wool and a Porter Cable 7424xp days.

There has always been leap-frog...new LSP's, new pads, new polishes, new machines (long thrrow etc.).
This forum (and others) have been and continue to be, an excellent resource for reliable information.
It’s definitely my first place to turn to for honest feedback and reviews on new products. YouTube and Reddit tend to be filled with “influencers”.
This forum (and others) have been and continue to be, an excellent resource for honest reliable information.

Although all the products have changed, and many of them are better than we could have dreamed of 20 years ago, we still have brand loyalty,
brand curiosity, "flavor-of-the-month"; we argue and iterate everything to death, we have our detailing heroes and demons.
Even with that said, I wish I had the money I spent on products that did not live up to the "hype" and I threw away.
Now with "social media" the hype is more of a pitch to peddle product than it is to give an honest "pro's and con's" product review.

You want REAL product(s) feedback?
This forum (and others) have folks that share their real life experiences to acomplish a task.
Also, it is a place where the folks can ask for honest opinions and learn. That's the beautiful part.
The younger generation are being sold on the idea that there is a wipe-on/wipe-off magical sauce.

Sadly, if you want REAL results (to this day) it still takes time, effort, knowledge, and skill to produce "show car" results.
This forum (and others) are still the ONLY place that you can get honest opinions and feedback on products.
 
Not sure what the draw is with social media. It really seems to attract people that can't even do a Google search. I'm glad we have a decent, if small group here.
 
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