Speed6 Guy said:
That is what I do. It is a lot like trying to get laid you just have to sack up and get out there.
Probably one of the best quotes I've seen yet on this site!
Anyway, it really helps to be a car enthusiast and know a lot about different makes and models. For example, I approached an older gentleman with a gorgeous red 1988 BMW M6 and just started talking cars with him.
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<me> "Wow, that is a rare piece of german engineering!"
<reply> "Yes it is. There were only 1700 delivered to the US. I have no idea how many are still around."
<me> "That has the same motor they put into the M1, right?"
<reply> "Correct. It's a modified M88 motor but you really know your bimmers."
<me> "It looks in excellent shape, are you the original owner?"
<reply> "Nah, I just bought it from the original owner last year."
<me> (noticing a bottle of P21S Wheel Cleaner on the dash) "Well, it looks like it just came off the lot. Do you take care of it yourself?"
<reply> "Yeah, but I've actually been looking for a good detail shop around here. I want to start taking it to shows this summer."
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That was too easy, but you get the idea. People that I like to target appreciate the vehicles they drive and understand the value of a good detail. They also love to talk about their own cars! Strike up a conversation, be interested, and know at least a little about what you're talking about. I've talked with guys for over 10 minutes before I even mention what I do for a job and hand them a business card.
Everyone has their own sales tactic; I just love talking about cars.