My 3 y/o always wants to come out and help da da but unfortunatley her idea of helping is to pick up rocks and sand and dump them in my wash bucket (thank God I saw this before I started washing!) so now I give her and old MF and a pail of her own and let her detail her big wheel...my 12 y/o is the opposite, he is at that age where he hides when he knows there is labor invloved