Hi Buick Guy,
I've noticed that you've been on for quite some time now. I also noticed this post by you in the past:
Buick_guy said:
I did, but I like to have direct answers to my questions, so I don't have to gather little bits and pieces
And also this:
Buick_guy said:
thanks man. It helps out alot when people are nice and friendly. I know some people that I have had replies just said, " didn't you ever hear of the search button?" That kind of puts you off on a forum
You must understand that we're all here to help each other and to not serve information on a silver platter to anyone. You have to put in as much effort to help yourself as everyone puts in to help you. I see that you've already been directed to some quite useful resources that would be of tremendous help to you.
You say you get put off as a novice when people tell you to search, but other members get put off by novices who deliberately refuse to utilize readily-available resources.
You remind me very much of one particular thread, where C-MDX and I had a few words exchanged. Here is a link to that post:
http://www.autopia.org/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31963&perpage=18&pagenumber=1
What I specifically am talking about are the posts beginning on page 4 of that thread, but the posts prior to that show the aggravation that lead up to it.
There was a bit of tension at the time, to say the least, but I've grown to respect C-MDX since then, and I very much appreciate the efforts he now puts in to be considerate of others, and how he helps out others when he can. Helping others consists of directing novices to information they need, but it also consists of not being a burden to others, especially when they've already given you direction.
Please understand that although we would like to help you as much as we can, we would like to see the favor returned by you paying attention to where we direct you for further help.
I hope you dont take things the wrong way, and I hope things work out well for you. :xyxthumbs
-Raymond