Man ive been thinking about your question since I read it earlier and all I can say is that sucks. For your wheels ive heard that with a good lubricant you can use 000 or 0000 steel wool and be ok. As far as your tires, they should be able to take some preety sever cleaners as long as you use a good rubber cleaner after and protect them as well. Your paint..besides clay...a heavy duty polish, just make sure you follow up with a sealant. Your wheel well I would think would be the same as your tire, you can use a good rubber.vinyl cleaner afterwards as well and follow up with a dressing. Just my 2cents what ever its worth. Good Luck!!!