Here is a possiblity.
First, the paint systems today are very porus.
Second, they are derived from hydorcarbons as the base materials.
What attached, according to your post, was a heavy hydorcarbon based material.
It slowly fractured (melted) and entered the poristy of the clearcoat.
Dependant of amount of time since it first was introduced to the clear, the temperatures during this time, the additives in the hydorcarbons, and add to these factors other unknown conditions, it may not be possible to "suck" them out of the clear.
In case you are not aware of the poristy of a clearcoat, I suggest you go to
www.autoint.com and under the Tech Tips Section, take a look at a highly magnified modern paint system. This cross section photo is of the complete layers of a the paint film applied by all vehicle manufactured and is magnified around 5000X.
When you see this, all that I am saying should make more sense.
It may be possible, but very small chance of being successful, to "draw" the materials out of the substrate.
Since it is a hydorcarbon based, it will require the use of an alkaline based solution to emulsify the hydrocarbon residue and break them apart.
Then, perhaps the alcohol may work as a "drying" agent to pull the emulsified hydrocarbons from the sponge of the clear.
There are no "certain and one fits all" solutions to this concern.
Sorry, but I can only share what I am aware of based upon my experience with this sort of issue.
