Thisgis my first posting, since my husband is a member of this board and we had a very heated discussion today regarding his interest, so I would like to get your opinion on this.
I think my husband is very anal about his car, my car... hmmm.. almost any car. I can understand if he wants to take care his car to the best way possible, but I can't help but find it annoying when he expects adhere to these standards as well. Here are some examples:
1. He won't let me lean on his car.
2. He doesn't let me touch his car paint. I got specific details on how to close the trunk.
3. Also specific details on how to close the door, ie. by the window.
4. He spends excessive amount of time detailing our cars.
5. He has bought so much car treatment stuff that it's underneath our sink, underneath our kitchen table, in the closets, basically taking up so much space in our tiny 1 bedroom apartment.
6. He bought so much wax that he had to give some away.
7. At almost every light stop, he comments wax or paint jobs on any cars stopped next to us.
8. He loves to perform wax test, car protective test.
9. He will also wax rental cars's gas cap when given the opportunity to test out his wax.
He used to apply Rainex on our windshield and doesn't like to use the blade, until I make comments about visibility.
10. He says I have low morals and that I disrespect car, just because I think it's OK to floor a rental car when the engine is cold and actually did it.
11. Of course, it's like helll freezes over, that one time I gave my car a lot of power right after starting it.
12. He lectured me for putting a magazine on his trunk.
13. His biggest motivation for buying a house is to have a garage for his car & car products.
14. He finds it hard to believe that a S-Class Mercedes will use the automatic car wash at the gas station.
15. And the list continues,
See I do respect his car, but I do think he anal and overly protective than others (general public). I try my best to accommodate him when it comes to his car / our car. But
- I don't like being called immoral just because I floored a rental car,
- I would like a husband who puts family (kids) as a top prioity when buying a house, rather than a garage,
- The bottom line is I feel he pamper cars more than he pampers you.
So here is what I would like to ask you?
- Do you think my husband is too anal about cars?
Thanks a bunch.
I think my husband is very anal about his car, my car... hmmm.. almost any car. I can understand if he wants to take care his car to the best way possible, but I can't help but find it annoying when he expects adhere to these standards as well. Here are some examples:
1. He won't let me lean on his car.
2. He doesn't let me touch his car paint. I got specific details on how to close the trunk.
3. Also specific details on how to close the door, ie. by the window.
4. He spends excessive amount of time detailing our cars.
5. He has bought so much car treatment stuff that it's underneath our sink, underneath our kitchen table, in the closets, basically taking up so much space in our tiny 1 bedroom apartment.
6. He bought so much wax that he had to give some away.
7. At almost every light stop, he comments wax or paint jobs on any cars stopped next to us.
8. He loves to perform wax test, car protective test.
9. He will also wax rental cars's gas cap when given the opportunity to test out his wax.
He used to apply Rainex on our windshield and doesn't like to use the blade, until I make comments about visibility.
10. He says I have low morals and that I disrespect car, just because I think it's OK to floor a rental car when the engine is cold and actually did it.
11. Of course, it's like helll freezes over, that one time I gave my car a lot of power right after starting it.
12. He lectured me for putting a magazine on his trunk.
13. His biggest motivation for buying a house is to have a garage for his car & car products.
14. He finds it hard to believe that a S-Class Mercedes will use the automatic car wash at the gas station.
15. And the list continues,
See I do respect his car, but I do think he anal and overly protective than others (general public). I try my best to accommodate him when it comes to his car / our car. But
- I don't like being called immoral just because I floored a rental car,
- I would like a husband who puts family (kids) as a top prioity when buying a house, rather than a garage,
- The bottom line is I feel he pamper cars more than he pampers you.
So here is what I would like to ask you?
- Do you think my husband is too anal about cars?
Thanks a bunch.
