I dont know what happened to the Industry, but I guess it has to do with selfish, greedy, ignorant, people who are dishonest to boot.
When I worked as an apprentice and a Painter, we NEVER did anything like was described above. In fact, we did things like polish out crystal clear, no swirls, an entire side of a car if necessary to show how the repair all blended in perfectly with the rest of the vehicle. And then we blew compressed air into the interior, to remove any and all dust, etc., that might have collected in there, and wiped down the entire interior. No dirty red rags, just clean white towels. Last, we washed the car and put on the coat of Megs No. 7.
Now, to your question, sounds like you had repairs done? Do you smell paint fumes coming from the actual repair location? Did you ask the people if they put heat lamps on the paintwork to help it dry? How long did they tell you to wait before you could wash/polish/wax the repaired area?
At the shops I worked at, for example, we only put on Meguiars No. 7 Glaze after buffing out the painted area, because it was safe, only lasted a few days, and allowed the paint to continue to dry from the bottom out. (the paint fumes you smell)
If it were me, and I smelled paint fumes still coming out of the area/s, I would wait until I dont smell them anymore before I did any hard buffing/waxing/sealing of those areas.
I am sure you can wash it carefully, but if its still not all the way dry, then dont risk the drying process completing, so all the coats are hardened up.
Sorry this had to happen to you..
Dan F