Some years ago I met a guy (single divorced, this will have meaning later in the explanation) in a local waterhole that I go to on Friday nights....its a dive bar that I like....kind of a Cheers bar if you will....Over the last seven years we have become quite close as friends shared a lot of very personal info...a very trusted friend to say the least...in that time we have spent countless hours at each others house...my wife and son are pretty much always with me on these occasions...dinners, poolside, etc...I think you get drift.
Here is the rub...he can be some what flirtatious with the ladies and this spills over to my wife...of course in the start I didn`t give it much thought...I am VERY secure in my relationship with her...however this last week, they made a date to go walking together on Saturday (today) to get some exercise for the diets that we are all on...I don`t care that much about the walking thing...other than my wife said squat to me about it..until last night while he was having dinner with us....and the small talk about what shoes and clothes she should be wearing....the different places that they should walk at....sort of a secretive talk if you will....its not that I think my wife is having or will have an affair with this guy...its just the guy to guy bond thing that I am bewildered over...I haven`t said anything just yet....the best thing for me is to think about it then attack if you will...this way I don`t make an a$$ of myself.
So what are some of your thoughts?
I will be working on a car today...ironically enough his car...while he takes my wife walking...
Thanks!
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