julias_vw_bug, there was very little traffic or posting on the "girls" forum, so it went off into the sunset ... or at least that's my perception of what happened.
No need to look for a "girls-only forum." Just post your questions in the appropriate forum, and folks will weigh in.
If you're looking for a Pro Detailer to give you a freebie, then post that request in the Pro Detailers forum. But don't expect folks to fall all over themselves to take you up on that "opportunity."

If you're looking for that kind of freebie advice, your best bet may be to hook up with one of the Autopia get-togethers that have been occuring recently. But since you haven't chosen to reveal your location (in your User CP), I can't tell you which group you might hook up with. St Louis Autopians had a well-attended get-together, and I know there have been others. Your best best may be to hook up with one of those.
