Alone after almost 5 years - Page 2

BigAl3 · 12-03-08, 04:57

there are plenty of women and i'm quite sure you'll find someone (you're young still) who appreciates you more. her loss, she'll look later and realized she screwed up...

POPPAJ · 12-04-08, 08:44

Hope you don't waste any time trying to get back with that one. Many of us have been there and it's best to move on.

Scottwax · 12-04-08, 08:51

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Originally Posted by Awsomeshine

Feel for you bud, but I prefer being single.

Same here. I do much better with casual relationships.

Flashtime · 12-04-08, 08:55

That which does not kill you makes you stronger.

FlowRate · 12-04-08, 09:00

Hey man, you already know I'm also in Reno. If you wanna hang out, just shoot me a PM, I'm on here mostly lurking every day. (also, if you haven't found a church yet, you could check out Sparks Nazarene)

Breaking up is always hard, but you'll get through it =)

Tripperfx3 · 12-04-08, 05:56

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Originally Posted by FlowRate

Hey man, you already know I'm also in Reno. If you wanna hang out, just shoot me a PM, I'm on here mostly lurking every day. (also, if you haven't found a church yet, you could check out Sparks Nazarene)

Breaking up is always hard, but you'll get through it =)

Thanks mate. Please don't take this the wrong way, but with everything going on recently I forgot to get back to you. I'm honestly wondering if this is a sign I should be going back to church. This morning I had a car pull in front of me and the plate said "LVFORJC." I've always been a fairly religious man, but just haven't been to church in a while. Mainly a lot of bad experiences with the churches I was with in GA.

Regardless I've been keeping pretty busy with working out and finals that are coming up, so I'm doing pretty good. Today was a pretty bad day and I may be meeting up with her, but not keeping my hopes up. Also when we talked last night she agreed that we need to have a real heart to heart and just get our issues resolved.

Thanks again to you all gents and your support and any advice is still welcomed. I also do have naked pics of her on my phone, so keep an eye out for those lol jk

BigAl3 · 12-04-08, 06:01

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Originally Posted by Scottwax

I do much better with casual relationships.

relationship with benefits?

FlowRate · 12-04-08, 10:40

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Originally Posted by Tripperfx3

Thanks mate. Please don't take this the wrong way, but with everything going on recently I forgot to get back to you. I'm honestly wondering if this is a sign I should be going back to church. This morning I had a car pull in front of me and the plate said "LVFORJC." I've always been a fairly religious man, but just haven't been to church in a while. Mainly a lot of bad experiences with the churches I was with in GA.

Regardless I've been keeping pretty busy with working out and finals that are coming up, so I'm doing pretty good. Today was a pretty bad day and I may be meeting up with her, but not keeping my hopes up. Also when we talked last night she agreed that we need to have a real heart to heart and just get our issues resolved.

Thanks again to you all gents and your support and any advice is still welcomed. I also do have naked pics of her on my phone, so keep an eye out for those lol jk

It's all good, everyone is busy during school.

I can't honestly claim that churches have been any different no matter where I've lived (GA, CA, IL, NV, NC, HI). There's always the good and the bad. I like the (very small) college/career Bible study that I go to at my church but I'm not fond of most of the rest of the church. My dad recently volunteered to be the head pastor for a small church in sparks and they're having some problems with the membership, too.

And remember, if SHTF, the ultimate revenge is posting those pics to a website where they'll get some use.

themightytimmah · 12-05-08, 06:57

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Originally Posted by Tripperfx3

I also do have naked pics of her on my phone, so keep an eye out for those lol jk

You know, Facebook has a mobile uploads section....

Tripperfx3 · 12-06-08, 02:30

Well I just finished having a nice long hour and a half conversation with my ex GF. I was able to get everything out and so was she. She said she still loves me, but is unsure if we will be getting back together anytime soon (which is fine and I don't expect her too), but I don't feel like our relationship is over. Like I said I don't expect us to get back together in the next week or month, but have a very strong feeling, as do most of our mutual friends, that we will end up back together. Regardless I'm not going to sit around and wait for this. I'm going to be going out and live my life. If I happen to meet someone than great, if not and it seems like I'd like to have her in my life again and she wants to get back with me then thats fine to. I'm truly just glad that I have that closure I needed in order to really start to get over her and get on with my life.

I want to thank all you guys for the help and info you've posted and graciously given. I truly did take a lot of your advice to heart and will not be initiating contact with her further. I'll leave that up to her and let her have her space.

backwoods_lex · 12-15-08, 09:58

Would you get back with her again? I have learned from experience that if any woman cheats on me, I'm running out of the relationship like it's a house on fire. No exceptions at all.

GP guy · 12-20-08, 05:22

What i have learned, is to have friends and family in your life, and give you positive thoughts and advice. To live your life also helps for you to move on. Time heals wounds.