So, my girlfriend and I broke up...

[joyriiide1113]

Whoa! I was 15 years old when i met my last girlfriend and 16 when we began dating, I'm 22 this Nov... we were together for 5.5 years and out fo the blue she starts acting shady. needless to say, "needing time" was not not enough, and we ended. It felt like crap, but 2 months out and I feel great. In a way, BETTER than when i was with her because I'm now FREE to do who and what I want ! You'll get over it, I promise you will.

Keep close to friends, family, and by no means keep contact with her.

[advs1]

Originally Posted by hXc drummer23

So Im finally starting to get over her. My cousin gave me some good tips he said he wouldve done if he knew them back in highschool. He said to be cocky towards her if I ever talk to her. He also said to ignore her completely. Shes being a real ***** to me so Im going to be one to her. Im talking to this other girl already. Her and I are going to the movies on friday.

i know this might sound kinda harsh, but think with the littel head for a while. i was with my ex wife since 10th grade, lasted till age 26. 11 years, then she cheated on me. now some 13 years later i dont even know how i tolerated her for so long or her me. i got 2 great kids that live with me and my new wife is hotter by like 10X's lol. its good to see you are going out. have fun, live in the moment and not the past. just remmember to wrap your member

[adamkerrnz]

You're too young for serious relationships.

I'm 19, and just broke up with my girlfriend of 18 months. Too intense, too much. At this age you need your mates more than a girlfriend to worry about.

[gators241987]

ahh, those high school relationships. Ive been there just like everyone else. Got my heart broken twice. Now Im older and wiser. Found the perfect girl, smart, pretty, loves to have fun, and likes to help me detail. Plus she will be a Dr. in less than 2 yrs. If I wouldve settled for those 2 chicks in hs, I would most likely have kids by now, working minimum wage and missed out on college, just like both of them are doing. A crazy Filipino once told me, theres more fishes in the sea. Its a cliche, but its very very true. Its been 5 mnths or so since u started this thread, any updates? I know someone who knows someone that can take this girl out if you want.

[BigAl3]

Originally Posted by gators241987

Found the perfect girl, smart, pretty, loves to have fun, and likes to help me detail.

keep her!

[california love]

Has this forum changed beacuse I could run amuk with this topic. Look dude they come they go, thats the glory. Detailing focuses your mind, and your talent, stick with that. Plus it makes you money. Did she do that ?

[dmw2692004]

I went through the EXTACT same thing last week. Take it all slow, keep detail those cars, it helps take your mind off of things. Relax, everything will turn out fine, I can GARUENTEE THAT to you.

[matt2616]

After my "big" breakup I went through a number of different phases: random blackout sex, random blackout vomiting, smoking amazingly unhealthy amounts of sour diesel; the list of irresponsible activities goes on and on, the 'college culture' kind of endorses it. However, when you eventually surface from banging fat girls and experimenting with your mind, I suggest you read "The Selfish Gene" by Richard Dawkins. I think that when you come out of a relationship as intense as the one you were in you start to ask yourself some pretty interesting questions. These are the questions that you need to learn to develop the ability to understand how(edit) to succeed in life. Some people live their entire lives never evolving their emotional intelligence past that of, sorry to be blunt, a fifteen year old. It is up to you to do the growing and fulfilling. Some people think that another person, or another car, house, drug, drink, whatever, will make them happy. And hell, maybe it does make them happy. But I think a lot of people find out the hard way that those things don't make them happy, but are only ways of numbing themselves to the pain they feel (me). EMBRACE this pain. It will make you a better, healthier, person.

[JasonC8301]

Originally Posted by matt2616

EMBRACE this pain. It will make you a better, healthier, person.

HAHA, Amen to that. I embrace the pain every time I go to the gym and the recovery period afterwards.

Just move on dude. I have grown from my last break-up and life has never been better (been about 3 years or so.)

[ajnavo61490]

idk if this is bad luck reading this or w.e but for me b/c im kinda just starting to get INTO a relationship with a girl (my senior year), and i have a feeling ill be searching for this post not too long afterwards :X

haha im jk bro but seriously dont get hung up on one girl (i made that mistake)... there always bigger fish in the sea!!!

[detail1]

Originally Posted by hXc drummer23

I try to get over it. I try to do all of this. I tell myself everyday. I can't really do it though. I know I might be too young and all of yall have tons of experience with this stuff, but I don't know. I have too strong of feelings for her to get over it just like that. And to tell you the truth, I don't think I want to get over it.

At some point in life, u will have to become a man! (if that's what u want).
I am 35 and when i was 16 and such, I was so hooked on just 1 girl and i would keep falling in love with another girl from the rebound. You need to realize that there are literally millions of girls in the world.

You need to focus on u and what makes u happy- like detailing cars!
U need to find a girl that shares some of your hobbies that will want to stay with u for who u are- not bc u take her to a fancy prom/party.

Try to take many girls on dates to simple places like a caffe, gym, movies, dancing, opera, bookstore, etc- whatever makes u happy.

Sometimes in life we like the fact that we are in love with a beautiful, attractive girl with a nice body bc we dont want to be alone.

If u spend some quality time alone, u will evetually meet new girls.

Whatever u do, don't remain friends with this girl UNLESS u want to double the pain that u are feeling now. U have to make your own decisions in life, don't let a girl string u along.

Good luck and be thankful for your health , family and friends.

Women will come and go- the right one will come along when it's the right time.

[hXc drummer23]

Well its been a while since I posted in here. We ended up getting back together over the summer. On Fathers' Day, she texted me and said she had something to tak about in person. She came over that night and told me a whole bunch of stuff while she was bawling crying. She said that she never stopped liking me, and she didn't know why she broke up with me. So we got back together up until about a month ago. She found someone else again. It didn't upset me though. I thought, "Hey, shes going off to college, it's not that big of a deal anyway." We hadn't talked in about a month up until a few days ago. We started talking about normal stuff. The funny thing is, she still calls me boo, baby, and some other names she had for me when we were dating. I thought she still loved me or something. Come to find out, she still does. This Sunday would've been our 2 years. She keeps bringing that up along with a whole bunch of our memories. To be honest, I don't really want to date her though. She is 2 hours away in college and Im still in highschool. I don't think it would work out too well. Well anyway, I haven't found anyone else yet, or even been close to finding anyone else. I've been avoiding people for some reason. I don't know why. I don't even know how to meet girls anymore. I forgot because we dated for so long.