So, my girlfriend and I broke up...

[twitch]

Originally Posted by themightytimmah

That's love man. Trust me, you don't want her back, but do realize that its going to take weeks/months before you feel alright with another woman. I'm in that same boat right now, just keep it easy and focus on stuff other than girls for a few weeks or months, and you'll be back in it before you know it.

Now's a great time to get your grades up/build your business. That's what I'm doing to cope.

The man speaks the truth... and love takes time (sometimes a long time) to "get over".

I know it's tough but you should also consider dropping all ties with her. By hanging out as "friends" this only prolongs the healing process and will make you more confused. You're letting her string you along and that's probably not a ride that you want to be on eventhough it feels comfortable for the moment.

[hXc drummer23]

Originally Posted by twitch

The man speaks the truth... and love takes time (sometimes a long time) to "get over".

I know it's tough but you should also consider dropping all ties with her. By hanging out as "friends" this only prolongs the healing process and will make you more confused. You're letting her string you along and that's probably not a ride that you want to be on eventhough it feels comfortable for the moment.

I try to get over it. I try to do all of this. I tell myself everyday. I can't really do it though. I know I might be too young and all of yall have tons of experience with this stuff, but I don't know. I have too strong of feelings for her to get over it just like that. And to tell you the truth, I don't think I want to get over it.

[twitch]

Originally Posted by hXc drummer23

I try to get over it. I try to do all of this. I tell myself everyday. I can't really do it though. I know I might be too young and all of yall have tons of experience with this stuff, but I don't know. I have too strong of feelings for her to get over it just like that. And to tell you the truth, I don't think I want to get over it.

I know dude... I've been there before.

It's a big adjustment to make because you're no longer "together". When you enjoy being with someone, then all of a sudden they aren't around any more, it can be trying. Then comes all of the different emotions that run through you with that big empty feeling <-- now that sucks!

And to clarify, I don't have tons of experience with this.
It only takes one time to remember what it feels like though.

[RS/SS]

Originally Posted by hXc drummer23

I agree with everyone. I should just get over this and move on. There is something stopping me though. I know this is going to sound weird coming from a guy. Hell, even I think it is weird. But this girl has something no one else has. I was in love with her the first time I met her. This girl is different. This wasn't like any of my past relationships where I got over it in a day or so. I still have feelings for the girl. I was even bragging to my friends how much I love her. My brain is telling me to get over this. I know it is right for me to get over this, but for some reason I can't. We still talk and hang out, but only as friends. She said there is a possibility that we could get back together. She said she wants to see after prom and senior trip. I know this sounds weird. I even prayed for the first time in forever today that we would get back together. This is the only place where I can say all of this stuff because all my friends think I'm crazy.

Chris

Listen to your friends cuz they're kinda right. You're a little crazy right now but it's not completely your fault. Situations like this will make you, or any one for that matter a little crazy, when you otherwise may have a good head on your shoulders.
This girl is playing you bro. and your letting her. She's keeping you on the side "just in case" her plan A doesn't work out. You deserve better than being her plan B.
I suggest you man up and nip that @%&%. She can't miss you when your still around. Remember girls like confident guys so be confident and show her you don't need her even if you have to fake it till you make it. Just my $.02
We look forward to seeing your future postings..... "What was I thinking" and "My new girl is 10 times better than my ex"

[mrfjsw294]

I cant tell you how many countless times ive been/felt the same way as you do right now man. BUT, believe me when I say, you will get over this girl. Judging buy what you say, she doesnt seem like the girl you ought to be in a relationship with anyways.

I dont think you are crazy, not at all, your actions are crazy yes, but you, no, you'r enot crazy. I was in your exact shoes before with my most recent ex. When things got rough, I threw her out and I LITERALLY thought my life was over, there was just something about her that had a hold of me. The key is, you have to power through the hard times. Hold you chin up, it's only going to hurt for a little while and you will look back and laugh on these days. If detailing is your only hobby, take up another one to break up the monotany and get your mind off things.

Just trust me when I say one thing...THIS GIRL IS NOT WORTH IT! If what you are saying she does is true, the believe me, she is not worth the heartache. There are plenty of other fish in the sea my friend, you will find this out shortly.

Good luck getting through it buddy, we only hope the best for you. But honestly, please take a look at some of the advice that has been given thus far, it is good advice and will help you get through your hard times.

[Monte78Carlo2k1]

You are in too deep man. Your only 15 man heck I am only 21 and once you realize its the best thing for the both of you. Especially since you two are in two different places in life now and even when she graduates. I went through the samething when I was graduating. I was dating a younger girl during my junior and senior year and part of my first semester of college. Sure enough I got tired of it because I was now 18 at this point and she was younger I felt like I needed someone who was on my level/at the same point in life as I was...And ever since then I have dated older women ! You will be alright I understand no one will be a nice, good, as different as she is. You will at some point realize that she was not the best was avaliable. Take it day by day and you will come out of this a happy and smarter guy afer going through this. Take it as a life lesson!

[hXc drummer23]

So Im finally starting to get over her. My cousin gave me some good tips he said he wouldve done if he knew them back in highschool. He said to be cocky towards her if I ever talk to her. He also said to ignore her completely. Shes being a real ***** to me so Im going to be one to her. Im talking to this other girl already. Her and I are going to the movies on friday.

[baseballlover1]

i feel for you man! i went through something similar right after christmas. I knew the girl and dated her for 3 years on and off. It gets better. Just try to stay friends with her. I dont think me and her are going to date anymore unless she is ready to be very serious but we still talk like every week.

[wifehatescar]

Originally Posted by oneshare325

You are not going to find "the one" in High school.

Well, I've been with my high school g/f for almost 15 years now, 6 of which married. So, it can happen, however unlikely. Not that this helps the OP.

[stiffdogg06]

Originally Posted by hXc drummer23

I agree with everyone. I should just get over this and move on. There is something stopping me though. I know this is going to sound weird coming from a guy. Hell, even I think it is weird. But this girl has something no one else has. I was in love with her the first time I met her. This girl is different. This wasn't like any of my past relationships where I got over it in a day or so. I still have feelings for the girl. I was even bragging to my friends how much I love her. My brain is telling me to get over this. I know it is right for me to get over this, but for some reason I can't. We still talk and hang out, but only as friends. She said there is a possibility that we could get back together. She said she wants to see after prom and senior trip. I know this sounds weird. I even prayed for the first time in forever today that we would get back together. This is the only place where I can say all of this stuff because all my friends think I'm crazy.

Chris

I think you may THINK she has something no one else has. Well maybe that's because you haven't experienced anything else.

I may sound mean, but I'm doing it for your good. I broke up with a girl after 2 yrs. I wanted her back bad, she found a new guy after 2 weeks. I couldn't go on with my life. I talked to my buddy, he said delete from AIM, my space, go the other way and not to pass her house, everything. It has helped me sooo much. Sometimes when other things bother me, she will pop in my head. But she fades fast. I have met sooo many other girls. Every girl had another quality another didn't.

I am in college so I have plently to keep me busy. School, working 40hrs, golf, my car. Just keep busy and when you are busy; trust me she won't be in your head until you stop being busy.

You'll be ok bud!

[twitch]

Good job dude

It didn't take you long at all and I hope that the date went well Friday night!

[P1et]

You don't even realize how many HOTTT women you'll meet in college!!!