So, my girlfriend and I broke up... - Page 2

BlackElantraGT · 03-30-08, 01:06

How I wish I could go back to those days when my biggest worries was getting dumped and how I'm not going to be able to go to prom.

You may not realize this now, but one day you'll look back and realize these were the "good ole' days". There's plenty of fish in the sea and in a few years once you start working in the real world, you might even be fishing off the company pier.

Have fun while you still can. The older you get, the faster time seems to fly by.

suki22 · 03-30-08, 07:13

Time ....it just takes time...you will heal...................keep your chin up.....

blackboxst · 03-30-08, 12:04

With every door that closes behind you a new one opens in front.........Keep your head up and your eyes open!

qballjr13 · 03-30-08, 12:26

Just think, her car will never be perfectly detailed again!

I had the same thing happen to me in high school. My high school ex was exactly what I thought I wanted in a girl...man was I wrong! It's times like these where you find out who your real friends are. Lean on them and those people will always be there to help you through anything. No matter how much you think it hurts right now life goes on and I know there are better thing...and girls...in your future. Everything happens for a reason and soon you will see why. Hang in there and take your extra time to make some more money detailing...then you can really take the girls out and spoil them.

red4.8 · 03-30-08, 01:08

The fun of high school.. You will be fine, just go out and have fun.. Look around have you seen the quality of girls in high school today..***...Must be something in the water...

twitch · 03-30-08, 08:09

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Originally Posted by red4.8

The fun of high school.. You will be fine, just go out and have fun.. Look around have you seen the quality of girls in high school today..***...Must be something in the water...

haha true. Drummer I see all the tail running around town (I'm on the Northshore too) and all I have to say is have FUN while you can!

As far as your X goes she was obviously not worth your time anyway... she proved that.

Take it easy dude!

stiffdogg06 · 03-30-08, 09:16

http://autopia.org/forum/hot-tub/995...break-ups.html

This thread has helped me soo much. I went through the same thing man.

topnotch · 03-31-08, 09:48

This has happened to so many of us. I for one broke off an engagement with a girl that I was with for 5 years. Its worth losing money when you break up sometimes and in your case the prom arrangements. In any case you will find somebody else. In my case after a year and half I got married to the best girl in the world and I could not be happier with my decision. Sometimes I think I stayed with her for 5 years just because I thought I could not leave one after being with them for so long.
I wont lie, its going to hurt a bit but just keep working on your hobbies and making a career for yourself before worrying about the woman. For now hang out with the guys and test drive a few ladies every now and then, eventually you figure what you really want in the process.

Monte78Carlo2k1 · 03-31-08, 01:08

Also to what everyone is saying...Don't rush back into a relationship whatever you do. You are a young guy enjoy life and the lack of responsiblity that you will have to face in less than 4 years depending how aggressive you are with becoming a independant man! Focus on yourself and your future life and more so schooling.

hXc drummer23 · 03-31-08, 07:26

I agree with everyone. I should just get over this and move on. There is something stopping me though. I know this is going to sound weird coming from a guy. Hell, even I think it is weird. But this girl has something no one else has. I was in love with her the first time I met her. This girl is different. This wasn't like any of my past relationships where I got over it in a day or so. I still have feelings for the girl. I was even bragging to my friends how much I love her. My brain is telling me to get over this. I know it is right for me to get over this, but for some reason I can't. We still talk and hang out, but only as friends. She said there is a possibility that we could get back together. She said she wants to see after prom and senior trip. I know this sounds weird. I even prayed for the first time in forever today that we would get back together. This is the only place where I can say all of this stuff because all my friends think I'm crazy.

Chris

qballjr13 · 03-31-08, 07:36

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Originally Posted by hXc drummer23

But this girl has something no one else has. I was in love with her the first time I met her. This girl is different. This wasn't like any of my past relationships where I got over it in a day or so.

I might be wrong and I appologize if I am, but if your a sophmore than your 15, right? Everyone here has been what through everything you are you going through. You being so involved in the relationship you may never see where we are coming from but you have to trust us. It's easy for us to tell you what to do but you need to trust us and move on. As hurt as you are I think you should tell her that if she wants to break up then break up, no friends, nothing. If you stay "friends" the thought of getting back together will always tease your mind. Now I will add my own sap, we are all here to help each other and lke I said, as much as it hurts you need to trust the advice all the guys here are giving you. You WILL be ok! WE PROMISE!!!

themightytimmah · 03-31-08, 07:37

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Originally Posted by hXc drummer23

I agree with everyone. I should just get over this and move on. There is something stopping me though. I know this is going to sound weird coming from a guy. Hell, even I think it is weird. But this girl has something no one else has. I was in love with her the first time I met her. This girl is different. This wasn't like any of my past relationships where I got over it in a day or so. I still have feelings for the girl. I was even bragging to my friends how much I love her. My brain is telling me to get over this. I know it is right for me to get over this, but for some reason I can't. We still talk and hang out, but only as friends. She said there is a possibility that we could get back together. She said she wants to see after prom and senior trip. I know this sounds weird. I even prayed for the first time in forever today that we would get back together. This is the only place where I can say all of this stuff because all my friends think I'm crazy.

Chris

That's love man. Trust me, you don't want her back, but do realize that its going to take weeks/months before you feel alright with another woman. I'm in that same boat right now, just keep it easy and focus on stuff other than girls for a few weeks or months, and you'll be back in it before you know it.

Now's a great time to get your grades up/build your business. That's what I'm doing to cope.