what would you do (relationship stuff) kinda long

[mustanginky]

Originally Posted by vdog0531

if she's just like a guy when it comes to relaitonships.. that means she probably ****ed him at lunch...

she's not like a guy like that, lol (although she is asian). i dont believe it's like that with him and her anymore. she has always been honest with me about her feelings for him, so i have no reason not to believe her on that issue (whether or not she still is in love with him)

[Accumulator]

mustanginky- Glad you two were able to talk it out so well. Hope it works out well for both of you, whichever way it all ends up going.

[Tasty]

No matter how hot she is, or how much you "love" her after 8 months...run away now. Life is too short for that kind of ****, and there are too many fish in the sea my man. Take your show elsewhere and let her play her little on again/off again games with her ex. I did a very bad relationship for a very long time (6 years), and wish like hell now I would have gotten out earlier. I learned a lot from it (what NOT to do again), and realized that there is no reason to do the stupid things I did when we are given a limited amount of time on this planet.

[jimvegas00]

Just remember to look at how she treats you, not what she says.
Go back and read that first sentance again.

I let myself get run over in past relationships and kept coming back for more. I finally had enough and vowed that it wouldn't happen again. Now I have a great girl and she treats me right.
Keep your eyes open, and listen to friends and family. They usually are right.

[a.k.a. Patrick]

Great advice.....

[riverrat]

Run fast and far Grasshopper!