I do know that most likely your attempts will be fruitless. I too hate salt, but its the only thing that can be used. There is no alternative that is both safe for the environment and works as well as rock salt. Here in Rochester, NY, they use rock salt on all roads, even on 50+ m.p.h. roads.
The best thing that can be done is avoid salt spreaders at all costs and don't drive when the salt is being spreaded. Other than that, the best alternative is to just wash your car every chance you get and layer that
SG!
Setec - I believe Anti-Skid = Rock salt + sand mixture.