I'm not sure about the ARM as a traditional loan, it probably exists though.
Over a year ago we looked at some places with a realtor and he said that a good way to do the interest only ARM loan is not to pay just the interest only mortage each month. Instead, pay several hundred dollars over the mortgage to build equity once the interest only term is over...never really looked into that though.
Yes, it boggles my mind how people can afford these homes. My wife isn't working, so it's near impossible right now. To somewhat safely buy a home I think a family's income has to be at least $150K combined. Yeah, I'm not there yet

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