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Note: I have cars from the '80s with factory single stage paint, including my 17K mile Jag, which just had paintwork done *and* I generally prefer good ss over basecoat/clearcoat. High-quality black single stage is something very special that I truly love. That having been said...
IMO the days of high-quality single stage are fast coming to a close; it took *months* to track down the proper paint for the biggest spot-in on the Jag, where I insisted on the original paint. I had some other areas done in b/c (couldn't get enough of the original paint) and it absolutely doesn't show...you can't tell the b/c from the 21 year-old ss. He got the color and the texture just right in *almost* all the areas he worked. This is a gray metallic/sorta-silver that's almost impossible to match anyhow (even the factory paint shows incredible variation). Black would be a piece of cake for that guy, so find a painter who's that good, even if it takes a while.
A *GOOD* painter can blend b/c into ss so well that you simply won't see it; you'll only know when you're polishing and some areas give pigment transfer to the pads and some areas don't. BUT (and it's a huge "but") it's gotta be a very good painter who's using the right stuff. Another "but" is that the new paint, and especially new b/c paint, will age differently from what's on there now. That might be a huge issue down the road, might not
Good b/c black will look fine if it's applied by a good painter. There are a scad of high-quality paints to choose from, each with its own features. The black b/c on a new Rolls/Bentley/etc. sure doesn't look brownish

B/c will be more durable than black ss. By the same token, black single stage *is* easier to remove scratches from, but it's a lot more fragile to begin with too.
I sure wouldn't let $1K make up my mind (easy for me to spend other people's money, but a good paint job always costs me a lot), and that second shop sounds fishy. That doesn't mean the *first* shop is any good either though...good painters are very hard to find. But the idea that clear = yellow is simply bunk. I wouldn't give business to people who try to deceive you
I'd go with the b/c, applied by a very good painter with extensive experience working on Porsches.