Zoomin, I hope this isn't too confusing, but I put your original question in quotes and my answer in the following paragraphs:
"Wash......the basic wash with
Meguiars Soft Wash Gel and than preliminary dry by high speeds on the way home (1.5 miles) and than using the Absrober. "
You will pick up some dust on the way home. I would squirt a shot of QD unto each panel before drying to reduce swirling. You might be better off drying with an MF towel with your QD, sort of like doing a normal QD.
"Clay Bar......I've never used one before but I have the
Meguiars Quick Clay system. From what I gathered I should saturate say the hood with the OD and rub the clay over it until most of the QD is absorbed. Any other thoughts. "
You will enjoy claying. Do smaller sections at a time and do not wait for the QD to be absorbed by the clay because clay does not absorb QD. Just clay (gently) until it glides easily over your paint and then you are done with that section.
"Meguairs Body Scrub.....I've heard mixed reviews on this. I have many many many many swirl marks in my black paint. I plan on applying this by hand wiht a foam applicator using an up and down and side to side motion thoroughly rubbing it into the surface. How much should I apply to each panel? How long should I wait until I buff it off? Is it easy to buff off?
Meguairs Scratch X or #2 Crystal Polish.....I have both but need help on deciding which to use. I want the easiest to apply/remove and the one that will bring out the pearl shine the most. "
You will have difficulty removing "many many" swirls by hand. But since you are planning to do this tomorrow without a machine, I would just try to reduce or "soften" your existing swirls using the body scrub and crystal polish. I believe Scratch X is more for spot-removal of scratches you can feel with your finger. Just hold off on total removal of the swirls for another time because you certainly aren't going to get them out by hand. Still, I believe you can get a killer shine if you clay, clean, and polish to prep your paint.
"Meguiars Gold Class liquid wax....I've used this before alone and have been fairly pleased with the result. This will be the protective coat. "
Carguy has a lot of experience with terrific results with this wax.
"I plan on taking before and after pictures as well. This will be my first major details on my car doing it myself and having gathered information from this board. By the way, I will be doing all this by hand. I'm a novice and seek any and all advice from the pros here. My biggest problem in the past is that I guess I use to puch of the product and it is so hard to take off. Any advice?????"
Don't use too much product!

I'm looking forward to seeing your results!