The
Meguiars website has a good vehicle that shows the basics of wet sanding on in their Clinics section. Check that out before you do anything!
3000 is really fine. Even 2000 is. If you are tackling a 6x4 area, using 1500 first might be best and going up to 2000 and then 2500/3000.
Work slow.
When sanding, only back and forth motions.
Stop every 10 strokes and inspect the area.
Be very careful.
Use a lot of soapy water.
Paco