I've become a big fan of
Meguiar's Quik Wheel Detailer.
Cleans well and leaves the wheel very slick.
As for tire dressing... I first clean the tires with my pressure washer then I use their Hot Shine Tire spray. I spray this on to an old terry pad and apply a very thin coat and it lasts long and doesn't sling.
Here is this combo on an 18 year old wheel.
and on a newer wheel.
And after three weeks and three washings it's still there.
