| be very careful mate, i understand that you have really deep feelings for your GF but 8 months regardless of what you have both been through, is a very short period of time to be thinking of such a great commitment. from the sounds of it she obviousley still has feelings for him due to the length of time she saw this other person, so naturally she still has feelings for him and that i can understand. she is being honest with you and telling you that she is meeting him etc, however i would consider stepping back from this proposal business and take a look at the bigger picture.
this other person is bothering you and you have expressed your concern, yet she has told you that they are just friends but still disregards your wishes. sounds a little suspect and IMO just like the advice of others be cautious and give it some space. it maybe sound like something you dont want to hear but honestly, we are all just looking out for you as no one wants to be on the receiving end of a cheating partner.
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