four month update:
car wash: Optimum No Rinse (with pesticide sprayer)
polish:
Klasse AIO
sealant: EXP or AJT (can't decide)
QD cleaner: FK 146
Spray Wax: Aqua Wax
Paste Wax: Pink Wax (might be a while before Natty's gets a shot).
Wheel Wax: FK FX100/425
Tire Dressing: Michelin
Leather cleaner: 1Z
Leather conditioner: Porsche Tequipment
FK 425 on top of all of it for a cleaner, slicker car between washes.