White95Max- Oh jeeze I'm sorry to hear about this
See how it goes, but I'm not all that optimistic. For every dealership like Stoddard (where they really do remedy any problems for me and their paint/body guys are OK) there are a dozen like Cascade Porsche/Mazda/Audi/Subaru where they'll do damage and then just shrug it off (just had the MPV's wheels repainted due to their negligence).
I will scold you just a little for letting the shop work on it after the way the manager acted. Nobody like that can *stand* next to my cars, let alone be responsible for work on them. I woulda explained about the dirty rag and marring and taken it elsewhere (cost be damned).