[wytstang]

"When in doubt, When in fear, DROP A GEAR AND DISAPPEAR"
It will only continue to bring you unneeded stress in times when stress is not needed. Move a long as fast as you can. Me and my wife are not that neat but cat crap being left over night will never happen (nor a spill in the kitchen). Clothes we both leave then in the dryer until on of us needs to use it. But we both do that so no big deal. You two do not seem to make a good long term couple as these little things will never stop. Get out now before she takes your stuff in court that she never earned.