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Originally Posted by Bigpikle
what you seem to be describing is a total mismatch in your fundamental values....
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Yeah, great response...took the words right out of my mouth
FWIW, there *can* be a matter of degree in this stuff. Accumulatorette simply isn't as tidy/motivated a person as I am, but the difference isn't so great as to be a big deal. But I don't try to change her basic nature or otherwise act like she's not an adult either.
Oh...and in these "we're getting married in
x months *BUT* he/she..." cases, I wouldn't even be remotely *considering* marriage
