[Bigpikle]

what you seem to be describing is a total mismatch in your fundamental values...

The things you value are either much lower in priority to her, or simply not on her radar screen at all. It may also be that from her side you seem like a 'bore' or whatever, as you are not up for doing the things and priorities she has.

I'm no relationship counsellor, but one thing I do know is that when you have a fundamental conflict like this, there is only a few options:

1. change your values to reflect hers - probably huge stress for you
2. stay together as you are and let the stress and conflict grow....
3. call it a day and recognise you are not compatible at a fundamental level...