[Slickery]

No offense, which one of you is the girl? Seriously Bro, grab your sack and dump her. The world is loaded with women. Any problems will be amplified when you get married, so only get married if everything is perfect. Anyhow, I'm married and recently got some time to myself, dam I miss it and I even like my wife. You'll feel bad for a week, a little guilty, and then total RELIEF. There are a lot of real good women out there. I've had two that did all the house work and were smoking hot. I'm not telling you anything you don't already know, just ask yourself how long do you want to keep making a mistake with this women? One thing for sure, at least put off the marriage.

I cannot tell you how many of my friends have had similar situations as you and now the women are sitting at home collecting child support. My best friend even fricken moved to her home town, had a kid, got a divorce the same year, and now he cant even move back because he needs to be near his only child. She refuses to work, so he supports her and himself- NO CHOICE. She is a lazy POS, sound familiar? If a women refuses to work that didn't work in the marriage, that's ok, but if a man refuses to work and support the family, he goes to jail. I'm not saying men shouldn't support their children, but this whole support her in the style she has come accustomed with is a damn joke. What about what the man was accustomed with? Because if you end up like my friend, you'll be eating mac and cheese every night while your women is messing with some other dude and living in a mansion. I'm not kidding I have another frined who had to move into a trailer while his women lived in a new two story. How? Easy, she put it on the street and had a new boyfriend and they moved in after a week. My friend had no reduction in child support even they had two incomes, she worked part time. He paid 900 a month in child support, and 600 in spousal support. He made a little over 50k a year, do the math. He lived a trailer for 3 years, that's when the spousal support lapsed, but he has to pay 900 per month for 14 years. his kid was 4 when they divorced. You know what needs to happen, just find the strength and do it. It is quite possible the cost for not doing it can ruin your life. Your future child deserves better then this.

Good luck to you man