[jordanrossbell]

Well kids in these kinds of situations can get brainwashed by one of the members of the divorce..i have seen this happen a lot...and with comes divorce, comes the division of monetary assets..its a natural thing and i think your friend is doing the right thing by asking that....also, and i mean no offense by this but her kids are too old to be living with dad and i think that kind of shows some immaturity there, which is why they are giving her the cold shoulder. Tell her to keep her head up and move forward and that they will eventually come around...sad to hear about her situation, i feel for her and dont even know her....but honestly, things will work out..and they WILL come around