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Originally Posted by -Longhorn-
I will just test the waters with this one. I was married for a very short time after dating for a very long time. My soon to be ex-wife is much younger than me. Most would refer to her as the "trophy wife." My brother tells me trophy's are nice but require far to much polishing.
What helped you get through your divorce?
What helped you get through the thoughts of wanting to make her hurt in the way she did you? (This question would apply to long term splits of same sex relationships if that is you. I'm not going to discriminate due to your sexual preference.)
How did you get over her?
How long before you felt that you were ready to move on?
Any real life advice, not crap you read in self help books, would be a nice discussion starter.
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What helped me the most was focusing on my daughter and trying to make my slef happy. Everything was about her for the 5 years we were married.. SO it was nice to think about me..
Oh I still want to hurt her... but I know i can't. Just remeber if you do anything it will come back to get you(trust me she has been paid back by karma)
Focusing on my myself..I took a trip to africa for 3 weeks did my first triathlon...
I start on match a year out and then had a lot of misses.... Now i'm happy with a good girl and .. well... I hear it's better the second time around I'll tell you in a year or so..