[ENVYMYZ]

and you guys seem like an astute bunch so I thought I would run this by you and get a few opinions.

So my girl and I will have been dating a year in November. My cousin is getting married in about a week and I was invited to his bachelor party this Saturday. My gf and I have a very open and honest relationship so I had absolutely no qualms about telling her that I was going to this bachelor party.

Well imagine my surprise when she said she was not going to be cool with that, and if she ever got married and the groom had strippers at his bachelor party she would "call the wedding off. No joke."

Now I am not into strip clubs or anything like that (I prefer the real deal, than watching some skank shake her thing to a Bob Marley song) and my gf knows that. Nor am I the type to cheat or anything like that.

I told her, this is my cousin, we're pretty close, and I have to go. Not that I "want" to, more like I don't have much of a choice. What do you guys make of her reaction? I've been given the cold shoulder since yesterday and last night she texted me that I don't respect her or have any regard for her feelings.

What gives??!